Who should you blame for your lousy wedding photos?

It was your big wedding day and everything seemed to be going great. Then you receive your wedding photographs and they look like amateurish crap. Who should you blame?

I am sorry but it is your fault.

Yes, you, the victim of bad photography, are to blame.

Because unlike the weather, this is one of several things which you actually have complete control over when you plan for your wedding.

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Before I turn 40

As I approach the big Four Zero in 2016, it’s getting harder to write blog posts like this. I’ve actually deleted and rewritten this post four times already because I cannot decide how much to say. But write, I must.

Turning 40 is fascinating yet dreadful – I know more things than before, yet realize how little I know about many other things. I’ve gotten to know many people, and also realized most of them shouldn’t know too much about me.

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Lifehacks to spend less in Singapore

There is this adage that it’s not how much you earn, but how much you can save that matters. As I get older, I get more focused on saving where possible because the cost of living only goes up over time. My current philosophy on “wiping the material life” has also helped sharpen that focus a little bit more.

Unlike most articles on the web, I’m not here to write about which bank savings rate you should invest in, or how to calculate your retirement earnings. You may not live long enough to retire anyway, who knows right?

I’m more concerned about staying alive each day and ensuring I am healthy so I can use my hands and brains to work. I’m not going to dwell on property or car choices either, since those are highly debatable on needs versus wants.

So on a daily basis, there are simple small practices (or lifehacks, as is the current lingo) that many people already practice, and that you might find useful for your lifestyle. Our expenditures are often a case of death by many small cuts, so where can we avoid getting hurt?

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It’s ok to be bald, people

I was shaving my head in the bathroom today when I realized that it has been 18 years since my hair started to thin out. It really feels like a lifetime ago when I first became terribly distraught about becoming a balding man at the tender age of 21.

My university days was the period which I had to grapple with this issue head-on (ok, bad pun) and I decided not to take any medication as it was both expensive and not permanent in restoring my hair. I also had the support of my girlfriend, and now my wife Goy, who liked my lame jokes better than my departing hair.

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On donation drives and the ACS spirit

I was looking forward to visiting the ACS Barker Carnival today with my family when I read the most distasteful story in the Straits Times titled “Carnival tickets: Students feel sales pressure“.

An upset housewife had uploaded the principal’s letter (original PDF here) to STOMP (no, I don’t link to hate-filled sites) and claimed that she couldn’t sleep over the letter as she felt that the students were being forced to donate.

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