<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: Paying The Price With No Regrets</title>
	<atom:link href="http://iantan.org/archives/1046/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://iantan.org/archives/1046</link>
	<description></description>
	<lastBuildDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 20:46:15 -0600</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0</generator>
	<item>
		<title>By: Empty Vessel &#171; Are they really fixing the birth rate problem?</title>
		<link>http://iantan.org/archives/1046/comment-page-1#comment-96302</link>
		<dc:creator>Empty Vessel &#171; Are they really fixing the birth rate problem?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:45:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iantan.org/?p=1046#comment-96302</guid>
		<description>[...] Paying the price with no regrets [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Paying the price with no regrets [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Desmond Lim</title>
		<link>http://iantan.org/archives/1046/comment-page-1#comment-96261</link>
		<dc:creator>Desmond Lim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 01:48:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iantan.org/?p=1046#comment-96261</guid>
		<description>Isn&#039;t it amazing that we are required to return yearly for 10 years to a maximum of 40 days a year and THAT is good for the country so &quot;heck care&quot; what companies want, whereas giving even a month of leave for fathers like you is NOT good for the company, thus cannot implement.

Don&#039;t just love the logic.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Isn&#8217;t it amazing that we are required to return yearly for 10 years to a maximum of 40 days a year and THAT is good for the country so &#8220;heck care&#8221; what companies want, whereas giving even a month of leave for fathers like you is NOT good for the company, thus cannot implement.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t just love the logic.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Sanjay Nair</title>
		<link>http://iantan.org/archives/1046/comment-page-1#comment-74278</link>
		<dc:creator>Sanjay Nair</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 15:11:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iantan.org/?p=1046#comment-74278</guid>
		<description>Couldn&#039;t agree more, Ian. Incentive or no incentive, holiday or no holiday...having kids is a blessing that everyone should enjoy. They complete us, and bring out feelings we ourselves could never imagine being capable of. 
I slept for 2-3 hours a night when my daugher was young (till she was 14 months)...would put her to sleep, wake in the middle of the night to feed her thrice...finally go to sleep sometime around 5 Am and then be up for work at 8. For some that could mean torture...to me they were the best days (or should I say nights:) of my life.
Her smile means everything to me....and I wish that joy to everyone...in Singapore or otherwise!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Couldn&#8217;t agree more, Ian. Incentive or no incentive, holiday or no holiday&#8230;having kids is a blessing that everyone should enjoy. They complete us, and bring out feelings we ourselves could never imagine being capable of.<br />
I slept for 2-3 hours a night when my daugher was young (till she was 14 months)&#8230;would put her to sleep, wake in the middle of the night to feed her thrice&#8230;finally go to sleep sometime around 5 Am and then be up for work at 8. For some that could mean torture&#8230;to me they were the best days (or should I say nights:) of my life.<br />
Her smile means everything to me&#8230;.and I wish that joy to everyone&#8230;in Singapore or otherwise!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: The Singapore Daily &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Weekly Roundup: Week 34</title>
		<link>http://iantan.org/archives/1046/comment-page-1#comment-74098</link>
		<dc:creator>The Singapore Daily &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Weekly Roundup: Week 34</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 03:29:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iantan.org/?p=1046#comment-74098</guid>
		<description>[...] 2008 - TOC: National Day Rally - some questions - My sketchbook: The baby package - Empty Vessel: Paying The Price With No Regrets - TOC: Nanny gets serious about babies but.. - vinyarb: Of getting hitched and babies - Hear Ye! [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] 2008 &#8211; TOC: National Day Rally &#8211; some questions &#8211; My sketchbook: The baby package &#8211; Empty Vessel: Paying The Price With No Regrets &#8211; TOC: Nanny gets serious about babies but.. &#8211; vinyarb: Of getting hitched and babies &#8211; Hear Ye! [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Fathers not included&#8230; at Kian Ming&#8217;s Homepage</title>
		<link>http://iantan.org/archives/1046/comment-page-1#comment-74046</link>
		<dc:creator>Fathers not included&#8230; at Kian Ming&#8217;s Homepage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 16:15:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iantan.org/?p=1046#comment-74046</guid>
		<description>[...] Another great article&#8230; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Another great article&#8230; [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Miao</title>
		<link>http://iantan.org/archives/1046/comment-page-1#comment-74020</link>
		<dc:creator>Miao</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 10:13:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iantan.org/?p=1046#comment-74020</guid>
		<description>Hi, you might be interested in &lt;a href=&quot;http://scientific-child-prodigy.blogspot.com/2008/08/on-maternity-and-paternity-leave.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;this post&lt;/a&gt;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, you might be interested in <a href="http://scientific-child-prodigy.blogspot.com/2008/08/on-maternity-and-paternity-leave.html" rel="nofollow">this post</a>.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Ian Tan</title>
		<link>http://iantan.org/archives/1046/comment-page-1#comment-74009</link>
		<dc:creator>Ian Tan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 06:47:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iantan.org/?p=1046#comment-74009</guid>
		<description>Hey Andrew,

Our baby bonus policies don&#039;t address the root of the problem at all. 

All it takes is this - make Singapore a place where we want to stay, want to bring up our kids, want to die in.

That means having to overhaul the education system, the high-stress work culture, the obsession with being number one. 

We have been so successful because of the above three things, but obviously, many people don&#039;t want their offspring to experience the same things. And the three things also encourage people not to have children. 

After all, what happens if their children cannot get into a top school? What happens if their kids cannot become lawyer or doctor or banker?

Simple, by Singapore standards, their children are deemed as &quot;unsuccessful&quot;. Like that, better to spare the innocent from a life like this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Andrew,</p>
<p>Our baby bonus policies don&#8217;t address the root of the problem at all. </p>
<p>All it takes is this &#8211; make Singapore a place where we want to stay, want to bring up our kids, want to die in.</p>
<p>That means having to overhaul the education system, the high-stress work culture, the obsession with being number one. </p>
<p>We have been so successful because of the above three things, but obviously, many people don&#8217;t want their offspring to experience the same things. And the three things also encourage people not to have children. </p>
<p>After all, what happens if their children cannot get into a top school? What happens if their kids cannot become lawyer or doctor or banker?</p>
<p>Simple, by Singapore standards, their children are deemed as &#8220;unsuccessful&#8221;. Like that, better to spare the innocent from a life like this.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Andrew Tay</title>
		<link>http://iantan.org/archives/1046/comment-page-1#comment-74003</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew Tay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 04:39:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iantan.org/?p=1046#comment-74003</guid>
		<description>Dear Ian,

I fully agree with what you wrote here. As someone rightly pointed out somewhere else, the root problem is our materialistic lifestyle these days. Family values have all but eroded in our society. We fear &quot;losing out&quot; to our peers who are seemingly &quot;more successful&quot; in their career development.

So I don&#039;t think the incentive offered by the Govt will reverse the birth rate; in fact it may worsen our materialistic inclination.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Ian,</p>
<p>I fully agree with what you wrote here. As someone rightly pointed out somewhere else, the root problem is our materialistic lifestyle these days. Family values have all but eroded in our society. We fear &#8220;losing out&#8221; to our peers who are seemingly &#8220;more successful&#8221; in their career development.</p>
<p>So I don&#8217;t think the incentive offered by the Govt will reverse the birth rate; in fact it may worsen our materialistic inclination.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: The Singapore Daily &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Daily SG: 22 Aug 2008</title>
		<link>http://iantan.org/archives/1046/comment-page-1#comment-74000</link>
		<dc:creator>The Singapore Daily &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Daily SG: 22 Aug 2008</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 03:43:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://iantan.org/?p=1046#comment-74000</guid>
		<description>[...] Day Rally 2008 - Making Babies - Empty Vessel: Paying The Price With No Regrets - TOC: Nanny gets serious about babies but.. - vinyarb: Of getting hitched and babies - Hear Ye! [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Day Rally 2008 &#8211; Making Babies &#8211; Empty Vessel: Paying The Price With No Regrets &#8211; TOC: Nanny gets serious about babies but.. &#8211; vinyarb: Of getting hitched and babies &#8211; Hear Ye! [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>
